Judge Mathis woman prejudiced towards feminine gay man

A woman on the " Judge Mathis Show" wanted to sue her gay 'friend' after giving him a loan which she considered to be a 'gift'.  This gay black man views an older homosexual man as his 'gay mother'.  This woman said that the old man isn't his 'mother' but a man dressing up as  a woman. Well, I don't think there is nothing wrong with that old man wanting to dress up as a woman.  He has the right to dress up as a woman.  Even if he thought he were a woman that would be okay too. If he sometimes likes to think of himself as a woman he can.  We all have the right to express ourselves however we choose.  If that young gay man wants to view that old man as him 'mother' he can. He has every right to. His real mother is probably a homophobic bigot anyways. Why try loving someone who treats you like shit? It's a waste of time.  That old gay man is probably more of a mother to the younger man and the younger man finds the sense of love and nurturing that he needs.   If that gay man wants to think of this older guy as his 'mother' than that is okay. If that old man wants to dress up in woman's clothing and think of himself as a woman that's fine too.  He has every right to dress up as a woman and think of himself as a female if he wants to because we have freedom of expression as long as we don't hurt others.  I disagree with this black woman on cross dressing or  gender roles.  I don't believe in gender roles and don't think there is anything wrong with cross dressing, though most cross dressers self-identify as heterosexual.  I think this woman is quite ignorant and really  needs to learn more about gender variants and cross dressing and perhaps that gay man should find someone else to hang out with.  Someone who will accept him and his cross dressing gay male 'mother' as they are.  I think that older gay man is more of a mother type figure to this younger man, one whom he can trust and rely on who gives him unconditional love which is something everyone needs. Apparently this woman doesn't show much of it and too bad cause it sounds like she could use a hug and maybe a little bit of therapy and education about reducing her 'crossdresserophobia' and 'femininegaymaleophobia'.